What are some key theories in interpersonal communication?

Several theories help explain how interpersonal communication works and why we connect with others the way we do:

• Social penetration theory: Explains how relationships deepen as people gradually share more personal information.

• Uncertainty reduction theory: Shows how we seek information to reduce uncertainty when meeting someone new.

• Relational dialectics theory: Focuses on the tensions and opposing needs that naturally arise in relationships, like independence vs. closeness or openness vs. privacy. It explores how people navigate these contradictions in their interactions.

• Expectancy violations theory: Examines how unexpected behavior, whether positive or negative, can shift how we perceive someone and change the dynamic of an interaction.

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