Is it him and I or him and me?

“Him and I” is incorrect, but you can use “him and me.” “Him” and “me” are both object pronouns, so they can be used together when you need the objective case (which includes the dative case and the accusative case). 

  • Dative case: The neighbors play volleyball with him and me every Saturday.
  • Accusative case: They asked him and me to water their garden during their vacation.

The subject pronoun “I,” which is one of the nominative case pronouns, cannot be combined with the object pronoun “him.” “I” can only be a subject or a predicate nominative.

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