Is it me and my family or my family and I?

Both me and my family and my family and I can be correct. Use I or me depending on what sounds right when you remove “and my family” from the sentence.

Me and my family or my family and I examples
Example sentence: Me and my family went to the movies.
Sentence without “and my family”: I went to the movies … [“Me” sounds wrong]
Correct sentence: My family and I went to the movies.

Example sentence: She has helped my family and I a lot.
Sentence without “and my family”: She has helped me … [“I” sounds wrong]
Correct sentence: She has helped my family and me a lot. [“My family” usually comes before “me” or “I”]

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